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The Coronavirus has forced many of us to stay at home, giving us plenty of time to examine our lives, and the actions we will take going forward when this winter of despair turns into the spring of hope.

Was the corporate ladder we were climbing before Coronavirus leaning against the wrong structure? Are we more afraid of not living and loving fully, than dying from the virus? Does all that we have worked for so hard own us more than we own it? Are we free men and women or slaves to our worldly needs?

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75 years ago this week, the Allies brought the Nazi threat to an end, with resolve, tenacity, creativity, and leaders who knew they must work together to succeed. With over 16 million Americans in uniform and at a cost of $4 Trillion in today’s currency, WWII proved America is capable of paying the price to keep the lights on in the metaphoric shining city on the hill.

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Death and dying, life and living are natural cycles. The Bible explores seven year cycles of prosperity and famine, and forty year cycles of slavery and freedom. Our recent Member Monday discussions have revolved around the topic of eighty year cycles as outlined in The Fourth Turning.

Wars, pandemics, famine, economic depressions, political revolutions and failed states are just a few triggers that end stale cycles and start fresh new ones. Since these cycles have been with us throughout history, the question is, what is the best strategy to deal with them.

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For many years City Club has been envisioning, discussing and taking small steps to launch Highland Institute, without really knowing what our desired institute should look and act like. But each once in a while we get a glimpse of what’s possible, a light bulb goes on, a sigh is heard, and a piece of the puzzle falls into place.

Right after death, we are more afraid of an uncertain future than anything else. To create a Secures Locus, or a safe place for our members, we strive to bring meaning, if not order, into the universal chaos we all have to deal with. For those of you who missed it, last week’s topic of Steve Smith’s Monday Member lunch was A Post-Pandemic World.

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The Jews are a peculiar people. Mark Twain said “The Egyptian, the Babylonian, and the Persian rose, filled the planet with sound and splendor, then faded away; the Greek and the Roman followed, and made a vast noise, and they are gone. The Jew saw them all, beat them all, and is now what he always was, exhibiting no decadence, no infirmities of age, no weakening of his parts, no slowing of his energies, no dulling of his alert and aggressive mind. All things are mortal but the Jew; all other forces pass, but he remains."

So what is the secret to survival and what’s unique about Spring, when every religion celebrates survival and resurrection? What lessons can we learn from millennials of hardship, from world wars to pandemics, from revolutions to economic depressions, to help us survive and thrive the Coronavirus?!

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We love the art at Highland because it gives us visual clues how to live our daily lives.

The Buddha head at Highland’s east entry with green moss growing on it reminds us to calm down and breath before we enter the building to start work. But hidden in the bushes there is a Pan sculpture to remind us chaos is the order of the universe, and that today's concept of “72-and-sunny” as the norm is an illusion that can be shattered at any moment.

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When I came to America at the age of 17, I could read a bit of English, but could not speak much of it.

Since I was a budding intellectual of sorts in my native language of Farsi, memorizing Rumi and Hafiz poetry as a child, I decided to compromise by going to engineering school, since I could speak the universal language of mathematics, and secure a list of the top hundred books of Western culture, hoping that by reading them on my own, it would make me an intellectual!

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In my 67 years on this planet I’ve seen many shocks to the system: from bloody revolutions that have brought down entrenched dictators, to the fall of the once mighty Soviet Union; from Great Recessions and economic meltdowns to commandeered jets flying into our power centers. So here is my take on the global pandemic we are living through.

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May we who are merely inconvenienced

Remember those whose lives are at stake.

May we who have no risk factors

Remember those most vulnerable.

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Fifteen years ago, on March 21, 2005, on the first day of Spring, and Persian New Year, we opened the doors to City Club with construction dust still on the floors and paintings, and 36 brave members who were curious to learn what we were up to. We had no idea what we were doing then, and are still not clear where we are headed now, though we have a few good ideas we are experimenting with.

It has been a long and arduous journey, but in the process, we breathed new life into Highland, and in return, built ourselves a community of passionate and caring people who believe black sheep need a tribe too.

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It seems everyone is concerned about the Coronavirus.

Governments are closing borders and quarantining millions of their citizens. People are wearing masks and canceling flights. But most probably, come Spring, we will have the upper hand, the stock market will regain its loses, and we will be back to our normal lives.

Meanwhile, there is another type of pandemic raging through our society and, like Coronavirus, it kills more elderly than any other age group. This pandemic is called loneliness, and it affects 28% of our elderly who live alone and are abandoned by society and their kids, who at best are struggling to earn a living and making ends meet themselves.

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Like humans, buildings are constantly evolving or dying; appreciating or depreciating. We believe while community is the heart of Highland, history is its soul.

Nearly 130 years after its construction, the historic Highland building is a living, breathing and ever changing structure. Instead of being a relic of the past, Highland strives to stay on the cutting edge of technology, evolving as we change the way we live, work, eat, entertain and socialize.

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Throughout the ages, Stoics got a bad rap getting associated with doom and gloom. In a nutshell, Stoics believe if every day we spend a few minutes dealing with the worst thing imaginable, something morbid, like death, dying or public shaming, for the rest of the day everything else looks great in comparison. See Steve Smith’s great intro below for more detail.

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Happy Valentine’s day to all.

As usual, Steve Smith does an excellent job of deep diving into a difficult subject like Love, so I want to ask everyone to read Steve’s introduction to get into the spirit of Valentine’s day. 

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For years and years we promoted the importance of traditions to creating community, and no recorded tradition goes back further than a Sabbath or Shabbat dinner, so we were always proud of our Friday night Happy Hours, till they slowly became stale…

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With the holiday season behind us, and many cold days and long nights still ahead, one has a tendency to feel blue. So here is our true and tested remedy: Think gardens; plan trips.

City Club is in the midst of planning a guided trip for ten to Spain, from April 18th to 25th. Mark your calendars now, and as we get closer, we will disclose more details like who is guiding and what this all inclusive trip will cost.

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They say a man can live a month without food, a week without water, but not a day without hope.

Dr. Martin Luther King’s I have a Dream sermon is an American classic reminding us we are all in bondage, until and unless we can imagine, dream, or hope for an alternative reality.

Victor Frankel, himself a concentration camp survivor and the author of the classic Man’s Search for Meaning observed the people surviving the camps were not the big and powerful, but the ones who still had a dream they wanted to fulfill. Read the lovely article below on the dream that kept Simon Wiesenthal alive.

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You don’t need to be a Bob Seger fan to notice we have been making some night moves at City Club.

From Thursday night music to Friday night happy hours, from Wednesday night classic movies to every night private social events, we are trying our best to bring fun into the long hard days we all put in. Our whimsical gardens are an ideal place to meet with friends…

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