Happy Valentine’s Day. May you love deeply and often, in good health.
In past years, I have written about Twin Flames, the Valley of Love, and my ongoing efforts to understand love in its many forms: romantic, familial, platonic, love of country, and love of the divine.
As I grow older and experience love at a deeper level, I have come to understand that romantic love carries a sticky residue—neediness, co-dependency, jealousy, or the fear of loss.
Two thousand years ago, Rabbi Hillel posed a timeless question: “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, what am I?” Applied to love, the question becomes sharper still: “If I cannot love myself, how can I truly love others?”…
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