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Our upcoming November elections will probably be a cliffhanger, with election deniers possibly delaying the final results through year-end. But if you think America is in bad shape, you should see what’s happening across the pond in England, or what just happened in China where President-for-life Xi Jinping, better known as the “Chairman of Everything,” got re-elected to a third five-year term by a vote of 2,296 to 0. Then, for good measure, just to make sure nobody missed who was in charge, he watched former President Hu Jintao forcefully removed and publicly humiliated to make it clear who was the Alpha.

Using anti-corruption as a blunt instrument similar to the way Joseph McCarthy accused his opponents of being communists, Xi has moved the Chinese Communist Party and its 96 million members “to the Leninist left, the economy to the Marxist left, and China’s foreign and security policy to the nationalist right.”

This witch’s brew will not make China the great nation Xi envisions. Add to this mix China’s disastrous zero-covid policy resulting in 19% urban youth unemployment, its disintegrating real estate sector, and a desperate attempt to project the power of the State over the private sector, and one can see why real trouble is brewing ahead…

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From Napoleon Bonaparte to George Washington, every general knows “an army marches on its stomach.” At the most basic level, this means soldiers, workers, employees, or anyone else we expect to perform a task can't function properly unless they are well-fed.

For the past 43 years, food has been an integral part of our Community. From our initial tiny residential kitchen functioning on a sump pump, to the licensed luxury commercial kitchen we have today, our primary focus has been to efficiently serve our members the highest quality food at the lowest possible price.

To achieve the above objective, we previously focused on efficiency and cost, by limiting to one hour the duration of our popular self-service buffet lunches. However, the pandemic forced us to rethink our process, concluding that we must change our focus from cost-saving to providing the most accommodating food program for you, our members…

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The Department of Health & Human Services recently recommended that children ages 8 to 18 get screened for anxiety. Another Government medical advisory group recommended that American adults ages 19 to 64 get screened for anxiety. Each year over 1.2 million Americans attempt suicide.

Before our government starts adding Prozac, like Fluoride, to our drinking water, let’s ask ourselves whether modern life, with all its technology and time-saving devices, has become that much harder than yesteryear, or have we simply become softer? We might further probe whether our “it’s-a-jungle-out-there” mentality reflects healthy survival anxiety or is a sign of new existential angst.

The primary cause of our anxiety is our mortality and the fear of death, followed by big questions like who am I and why am I here?! Closely related is anxiety arising from the uncertainty of not knowing where and how we fit into our society. Do we want equal opportunity or equal results? Should we reward the winner, or give everyone a participation award? Should our military recruiters focus on “inclusion” or identify and attract “warriors?” Do we prefer capitalism’s unequal distribution of wealth or socialism's equal distribution of suffering?…

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Di·a·logue; a written or spoken exchange between two or more people, associated with the Socratic dialogue developed by Plato.

I like to think of City Club as a multi-faceted jewel. We have great food but are not a restaurant; we have beautiful art but are not a museum; we have delicious drinks but are not a bar; we have magical gardens but are not a park; we have quiet spaces in which to work but are not an office.

Instead, what we are, or aspire to be, is a safe space for our members to engage with others in the most authentic, open, and free manner, including openness to accept constructive criticism. Why? Because “a recent poll found that more than half of Americans have become afraid to voice their opinions freely for fear of retaliation or severe criticism.”…

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As a kid, when asked “what do you want to be when you grow up,” my answer was, “A Winner.” I didn’t want to be rich, powerful, or smart, but I was addicted to learning, growing, and striving to win the game of life.

It took a lot of unnecessary pain and suffering to learn that there are no winners in life. Instead, there are only winning teams, hence my desire to build a community, which is why I am so proud of Team City Club, without whose help we could not have survived the parade of horribles such as pandemics, recessions, labor shortages, flood, and now fire.

Last Tuesday at 2.25 a.m. the club’s Trash/Recycle/Compost structure spontaneously combusted from some of the oil-soaked papers disposed of by the painters, causing a raging Fire. (link to the video).

I recently wrote about my late-life pivot from an emphasis on planning to preparation, and this fire experience confirmed it. Within minutes of the fire’s outbreak, our neighbors called the fire department, followed a few minutes later by half a dozen police cars and two fire trucks to extinguish it…

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The once-in-a-generation tectonic shift in the dollar’s value, the global reserve currency, is bound to have unanticipated political and financial consequences we may be powerless to address.

In the name of fighting inflation in America, the Federal Reserve continues to raise interest rates, thereby creating global inflation by attracting foreign capital to the US seeking higher returns, resulting in the recent Euro/Dollar parity, a ~30% drop in the value of the British Pound, and a ~20% drop in the value of the Japanese Yen, not to mention the negative effects of our balance of trade with China as a result of the dollar trading at over seven Yuan.

Talking tough and acting like the second coming of Paul Volcker, Federal Reserve Chairman Jerome Powell has suggested his impetus for raising rates is rooted in the need to tame the recent alarming inflation rate. This attempt is both disingenuous and dangerous because it ignores the fact that it was the Fed itself that created incipient inflation through its loose monetary policy over the past twelve years. The idea that inflation can be tamed in a meaningful way through tiny incremental interest rate rises is misguided as long as nominal rates are lower than the inflation rate…

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America’s Founding Fathers, themselves flawed men, were nevertheless geniuses who recognized all men are flawed, and so they designed a system of government that featured legal checks on political power to minimize the potential damage wrought by bad leaders and fake Messiahs.

Our forefathers emigrated from Europe because their Churches and Kings denied them land and individual freedom, while in America one could claim all the land one could fence or cultivate while enjoying fundamental rights of protection from the State.

But now, after nearly 250 years, we are witnessing a troubled America with crowded cities, proliferating bureaucracies, high inflation, urban crime, and chaos at our Southern border, stained by the disgrace of Vietnam and Afghanistan losses. A closer look reveals a homeless problem that reminds us of Bombay, an expensive welfare system that does not work, public schools that can not teach, a biased news media that pawns editorials as news, and universities that suppress freedom of speech in the name of Wokeness…

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Highland, a 132-year-old historic landmark, has survived and thrived this long, not by resisting change, but by embracing it. Unlike the frog in the slowly boiling pot, we know when to jump.

As we now find ourselves in the midst of the Great Resignation, labor shortages, and what looks like pending Stagflation, once again we are forced to embrace change by making various adjustments to our operations, including the redesign of the club’s menu, pricing, and hours of service, to reflect the needs of our members better.

The marketplace has a way of clearly signaling perceived value and priorities by what it is willing to support. For the past six months, we have experienced sparse lunch attendance, especially by our younger members who have expressed their desire for expanded service hours so they can eat when they are hungry, and have options for simpler, quicker, and less expensive meals like sandwiches instead of gourmet entries, vegetarian over meat dishes, with emphasis on the social and communal aspect of lunch over the meal itself…

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We received a lot of feedback regarding last week’s introduction on the role of fate, and the importance of preparation over planning. To prove that fate is not always an obstacle, here are a few examples of how at times fate plays with loaded dice in favor of the underdog.

Most people know the story of Fred Smith, the founder of FedEx, gambling his last $30K in Vegas to meet payroll, or how Elon Musk got a $1.5 billion commitment from Nasa on Christmas eve, preventing SpaceX from declaring bankruptcy. So here is one of my favorite stories on the role fate plays unless you want to call it a miracle.

In the spring of 1967, Israel found itself surrounded by enemies bent on its imminent destruction. On May 14, Egyptian president Gamal Abdel Nasser ordered a full mobilization of Egypt’s armed forces, declaring “Our basic objective will be the destruction of Israel.”…

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“If fate doesn't make you laugh then you don’t get the joke.” Shantaram

The Bible says God created the world in six days and rested on the seventh day. I assume God was bored on his day off so he entertained himself by watching humans make plans.

The Stoics believe control is an illusion fueled by the ego. “Nobody’s in control of nothin’.” Instead, chaos is the rule, and order is the exception…

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One need not be a Wizard to realize the recent miracle in Kansas, a red conservative state in the middle of the country, recently setting the national tone on the abortion issue by voting 59 to 41 against a measure that would have made abortion illegal in the state.

That state action underscores the intent of the Supreme Court’s recent Dobbs v. Jackson ruling. In overturning Roe v. Wade, the Court held that the U.S. Constitution does not confer any right to an abortion and, by overruling Roe, it was returning the regulation of abortion to the people and their elected representatives, adding Roe had been egregiously wrong and amounted to ”an abuse of legal authority.”

As such, the court took no position one way or another on the legalities of abortion and simply left such determination to the individual states…

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No matter how smart or hardworking one is, it still takes time to grow wise. It takes years of hard work to have overnight success. It takes nine months for a baby to gestate. It takes time for the fruit to ripen on the tree.

The Bible says that Moses, on his way to the Promised Land, got lost in the desert and wandered in the wilderness for forty years! How could that be?! The Sinai desert is so tiny that nobody could get lost there for that long!

The answer might lie in seeing this 40-year journey in metaphorical terms where the wilderness is internal, and the Promised Land is the acquisition of wisdom to address fundamental questions such as what is the meaning and purpose of my life? Perhaps the journey comes down to becoming the very sage we had been seeking…

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In my 70 years on this planet, I have seen and done a lot, including a revolution causing me to abandon home and family, earning a living and fighting billion-dollar lawsuits, staying healthy and raising children; but the hardest thing I have ever done, by far, is to stay in a loving relationship for 46-years-and-counting. Like a drunken rodeo star striving to stay in the saddle, nearly 90% of the time I walk around emotionally wounded and in pain, but that 10% in the saddle makes it all worthwhile! No wonder 50% of marriages end in divorce.

This condition is not due to the fact I am easy and my partner hard to get along with, or vice versa. Instead, it is the nature of all relationships to be either too easy and maybe a bit boring, or too difficult and a bit hot. Think Elizabeth Tayler and Richard Burton. Think Frank Sinatra and Ava Gardner.

When things get tough, I consult Kahlil Gibran and re-read his poem On Marriage. Since last week’s topic was the valley of love, where one “abandons reason for the sake of love,” this week, let’s revisit marriage to remember what it takes to stay in a long-term healthy, and loving relationship…

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My favorite part of helping Dustin run City Club is meeting with and giving tours to prospective members and answering questions like: What’s the story behind the evil-looking chicken perched on top of the residences? For the benefit of our many new members, here is how I answered that question a few years back.

Nearly eight centuries ago, Persian Sufi poet Attar of Nishapur, a contemporary of Rumi, wrote a poem called “The Conference of the Birds”. In the poem, the birds of the world gather to decide who is to be their sovereign, as they had none. The hoopoe, the wisest of them all, suggested they should find the legendary Simurgh. The hoopoe leads the birds, each of whom represents a human fault that prevents humankind from attaining enlightenment.

The hoopoe tells the birds that they have to cross seven valleys in order to reach the abode of Simurgh…

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Throughout man’s recorded history, the average length of an empire has been ~250 years.

When the President of the United States thinks a fist bump is a good diplomatic compromise between “I will not shake that man’s hand,” and the reality of needing Saudi’s oil even though America is capable of producing its own,” we know we have hit a new low.

Domestically, the consequences of the January 6, 2021 attack on the Capitol are still reverberating; inflation is raging at a near all-time high, and our country is divided along pro-life and pro-choice lines. Internationally, we are engaged in a proxy war with Russia in Ukraine; the Middle East is a tinderbox ready to explode, and China is challenging America’s global leadership on every front.

In light of the above, even the proponents of American Exceptionalism are questioning whether 246 years into it, our Democratic experiment is in the process of self-destructing….

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The point of President Biden’s visit to the Middle East this week is not to preach American moral principles to young Prince Mohammed Bin Salmon of Saudi Arabia, nor to cajole an additional two million barrels of oil per day in an effort to help lower inflation at home to bolster the Democrat’s chances in the midterm elections. Rather, the significance of President Biden’s historic visit is to determine America’s position regarding the 1400-year Shia-Sunni conflict.

After Profit Mohamed’s death, the question of Islam’s leadership split Muslims, the world’s second-largest religion with over two billion members, into two sects: the Sunni sect led by Saudi Arabia, and the Shia sect led by Iran.

Iran is close to developing a nuclear bomb and openly threatens to wipe Israel off the map. The Saudis, while certainly no friends of Israel, are smart enough to know Jews are always the first to go. Whoever comes after the Jews now, will eventually come after them later.

While President Trump has surely taken some foolish actions, his forging of the Abrahamic Accord was brilliant in that it changed the balance of power in the Middle East by making Saudi Arabia and Israeli reluctant allies…

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After the completion of Highland’s renovation in 1979, we started work on our gardens by planting a spruce sapling in the very center of the then-new garden. Over the past 43 years this tree grew to be 65’ tall, then this spring it was brought down by 100 mph winds.

Since then we have had many discussions regarding the function and future of the Highland gardens and how we should integrate this new space into our garden’s everchanging masterplan. These options included planting a new shade tree, permanently installing the Duality sculpture, transferring the bronze flower urn nearby, or designing and building a third fountain at Highland….

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On July 4th, 1776, Congress formally adopted the Declaration of Independence, elegantly drafted by Thomas Jefferson, informing Britain that the American colonies desired to rule themselves.

But, as Theodore Roosevelt stated in 1910, “while in name we had a Declaration of Independence in 1776, we gave the lie by our acts to the words of the Declaration of Independence until 1865; and words count for nothing except in so far as they represent acts.”

Once again, like in the 1850s, and 1960s, the very fabric of American society looks threadbare. Once again, like Germany and Japan before them, Russia and China are challenging America’s global leadership.

Domestically, inflation is raging; the homeless live on the streets and under bridges; homicide rates and mass shootings are up dramatically; Supreme Court justices are targets of assassination, and as a result of the court overturning Roe vs. Wade, members of pro-choice “Jane’s Revenge” feel compelled to call for a “Night of Rage,” acting like the second coming of “The Weather Underground”.

Looking more like a lawless jungle than a country of law and order, crowds burn down a police precinct and the police flee, loot stores and get away with it, while prosecutors seem more concerned about the rights of the accused than the rights of their victims.

In light of the above, on this 246th birthday of our nation, we have to ask ourselves, is the American experiment finally unraveling, or is this another example of “its always darkest before dawn?” Are Presidents Trump and Biden the best America can offer, or are we still capable of producing leaders like Abraham Lincoln, FDR, and John Kennedy?

I would like to answer these questions by posing other questions: are we the good guys or the bad guys? Is America’s founding based on slavery or freedom? Should we celebrate America’s founding year as 1776 or 1619? If not the Shining City on the Hill, why are people dying to get into America?

Once again, let us celebrate America’s independence, and strive to make it a better place.

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Great leaders can emerge from diverse backgrounds including politics, military, law, farming, and business, so let’s see what lessons we can learn from two great leaders who started as actors.

President Ronald Reagon was a B-movie actor and spokesman for the General Electric Company. This role forced him to think through important social and political issues, write his own speeches, and broadcast them on his weekly radio talk show.

Reagan served two terms as Governor of California, and two terms as President of the United States. In 1980 he won 44 states to defeat President Jimmy Carter, and four years later won again in a landslide victory by taking 49 states.

The two pillars of Regan’s governing strategy were: the Soviet Union is an evil empire and must be defeated; our government has grown too big and must be cut in size to allow Americans more freedom to lead their lives.

Born into a Jewish family and educated as a lawyer, Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky chose to become an entertainer and excelled as an actor, dancer, and comedian. His acting role as the Ukrainian President in a satirical TV serial called The Servant of the People catapulted him into a landslide victory by capturing over 73% of the votes cast in 2019.

Underestimating his opponent, on February 24th Russian President Vladimir Putin invaded Ukraine, setting the stage for another David vs. Goliath moment in history, or maybe a Haman vs. Mordechi situation that will set Russia back many generations, regardless of the outcome of the war. Zelensky’s quote at the outset of the war, “I don’t need a ride; I need more ammunition,” will go down in history as a great example of natural courage.

I want to draw two valuable conclusions from this comparison: 1) it is a mistake to judge others and underestimate our opponents, and 2) we create our own reality, so acting the part, and hoping to grow into it is as good of a strategy as any.

May our next leader be worthy of our trust.

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Most of us love our fathers. As sons, we want to grow up to be like them, or not; and as daughters, we want to marry someone like them, or not. At the very least, our fathers provide us with the foundation to become the adults we wish to become.

Freud thinks we all have daddy issues, which he calls the Oedipus Complex. All humans are flawed and our fathers are no exception. They try, we try, and it’s still hard to have a healthy relationship. But at some point, we must leave the protective safety of the shade our fathers provide in order to see our own shadow and decide who we want to be, instead of living our father’s image of ourselves.

The Oracle foretold that Oedipus would kill his father and marry his mother. But do these enduring Greek tragedies, Shakspearian plays, and Freudian theories teach us anything valuable about the relationship with our fathers? Otherwise, why have they prevailed so long?

Many cultures and religions have ancient rituals to separate sons from their fathers and daughters from their mothers when they turn into adults sometime during their teen years. Learning to forgive and love our fathers, faults and all, is a prerequisite to forgiving ourselves and then learning to love ourselves. Ancestor worship is for our benefit, not for the benefit of our ancestors who are dead and gone!

Introducing religion and culture into this already complex issue makes being a good father that much harder. Until recently, being a good father meant siring children, protecting and providing, and maybe teaching them a trade, after which time we put them in God’s hands, hoping they will find their own way through life. But the recent helicopter parenting fad strives to do and be everything, including being our children’s best friend, therefore depriving them of the discipline and authority they need while growing up.

I can go on talking about loving, smart and flawed fathers; instead, I encourage you to read the brief book review of “My Dad The Deal Maker: The Adventures of Herbie Cohen.”

Happy Father’s Day.

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