Fifty percent of all marriages in America end up in divorce, and many others turn into marriages of convenience. One need not believe in metaphysical life after life to be curious about the idea of soulmates, or twin flames merging into one. Here’s one take after forty-six years into my own exciting and arduous relationship:
It all starts with chemistry. Good chemistry is defined less by physical attraction than by the ability to experience comfort with oneself in the presence of another. As the saying goes “We only fall in love with our mother twice,” like when a man feels as safe and comfortable in the company of a woman as he was with his mother and thereupon can be himself again. Obviously, the same goes for daughters and fathers.
Contrast the fairytale version of a soulmate – Prince Charming appearing on a white horse to take the princess away to live happily ever after – with the simple reality that life is hard and full of intermittent curveballs that help us grow. Children, financial challenges, health concerns, and natural aging all play a part in a typical decades-long relationship…
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