Happy Valentine’s Day. May you love deeply and often in good health.
In past years, I have written on marriage, the concept of Twin Flames, and my ongoing efforts to understand love in its many forms: romantic, familial, platonic, love of the country, and the divine.
As I grow older and experience love through the lenses of my reptilian, mammalian, and neocortical brains, I’ve come to understand that most love has a sticky quality, tinged with various shades of neediness, co-dependency, jealousy, or the fear of loss.
Two thousand years ago, Rabbi Hillel posed a timeless question: “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, what am I?” We can apply this concept to love by asking, “If I cannot love myself, how can I truly love others?”…
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